Thursday, May 19, 2016

My Parents Are Threatening To Disown Me Because Of NYSC

Hello Laila,
Please help me. I don't know what to do. I was supposed to go to youth service with the first batch 2016 stream a around February. I collected money from my daddy to round up some necessary things and then pay some outstanding fees that was demanded during my clearance. I assured my dad that I will be leaving for camp by February but NYSC postponed the date to march and from march top April. they sent me a text informing me that i will not be joining the stream 1 but will go with stream 2. My parents started feeling bad because they cant understand why i am still at home by may when I guaranteed them while i was collecting money that I will go by February. I have called every body I know to help me explain to them that it was not my fault but they don't believe me.
I dont blame them because they had a bitter experience with my elder brother who wasted 4 good years at EBSU collecting money from them when he wasn't even a student. When it was time for him to graduate, he started telling alot of cock and bull stories until my mum and dad went to Abakaliki and discovered that he wasn't even a student. That is why they are reacting this way to me. They think I may be trying the same prank. Worse is that these  postponements are not been updated on the NYSC website or published in any paper or news house so my dad could confirm that i wasn't just trying to play a fast one on them. Imagine my happiness when i received an SMS last week to go and print my callup. I printed it and went home happily to show them so they will know i wasn't lying that I have graduated. The callup letter enabled me collect money from my dad and went to the market on Monday and bought things that i will use to report on camp on 21st being Saturday only for me to woke up this morning and saw another SMS from NYSC telling us that the 21st May (this Saturday) day has been postponed again. I couldn't hold back the tears. I showed my mum when she woke up and she screamed and started accusing me of being up to something. Worse is that my friend who lives in our compound was deployed with stream 1 and they were using her deployment as proof that i never graduated. My father beat me up this morning and the whole compound people gathered. I had to run away because even my mum supported him. Please. aunty, You know i am not lying. please, help me and call them and explain to them that i am not lying. I dont even know where to sleep this night. please help me. My fathers number is 0816732****, and my mum is 0909723****. Thank you 


TILB:
Dear poster, I have called both your parents and they both strongly believe that you did not graduate like your brother. Your mum was even crying over the phone about all the money they spent and the time wasted. I tried assuring them but they seem to have made up their minds on what they want to believe. Please go home and show them your statement of result and your clearance forms and then all your school fees tellers or receipts. If they dont buy it  Since you stay at Enugu, Take either of them to Nsukka and let them make the necessary inquiries from your department. With the way they are sounding, I think that's the only thing that will save you. so they can have rest of mind. Dont blame them too much because you know why they are behaving like this. This is really sad.  I pray NYSC rectifies this issues quickly. Be strong

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